My name is Brigitte and I froze 11 eggs at age 39.
When I started my fertility journey in 2011, egg freezing was still in its infancy (in fact – it was still “experimental”). There were no egg freezing specific blogs, websites or communities – zero, nada, zilch. Going through the egg freezing process was terrifying and isolating. And, I knew I was not alone. So, I decided to do something about it.
In May 2012, four months after freezing my eggs, I launched Eggsurance – the first egg freezing community and education site.
Since its inception, Eggsurance, like egg freezing, has gone through several iterations. However, Eggsurance’s guiding principle remains the same: Build a safe and welcoming egg freezing community for women to explore fertility preservation, meet like-minded women and share their stories.
If you told me when I started Eggsurance that two years later I’d be on the cover of Bloomberg BusinessWeek, I would have said STFU! Although it was never my intention to become “the poster child for egg freezing,” I knew it was important to be open and vocal about my egg freezing journey.
Founder, Brigitte Adams
Freezing my eggs
For so many years, I had ignored my fertility. I can’t blame my OB/GYN. I can’t blame society for lulling me into the misconception that I still had time. Looking back now, I realize that I kept waiting for all the pieces of the puzzle – the guy, the job, etc.. – to magically connect themselves and THEN I would be ready for motherhood.
Unfortunately, my life did not take the linear path I expected it to. It was not until a few months shy of my 39th birthday that I finally got into action and froze my eggs.
My frozen eggs failed me
After six years on ice, I finally decided to stop waiting for Mr. Right and embrace single motherhood. When I froze my eggs I knew that there were no guarantees. I agreed to the odds, anyway. However, over the six years my eggs were on ice, I convinced myself that the rules did not apply to me.